RELATIONSHIP HABITS THAT WILL RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

If you are in a relationship, there are certain habits you must avoid. These habits that can ruin you and ruin your partner. A few of them have separated many couples because they felt it's only natural to feel that way. Yes, it might be but it's not totally true. In this curated article, we will look at bad habits to avoid that destroy the relationship.

 Don't read minds.

Mind reading and overthinking can make you take wrong decisions. Communication is the backbone of any relationship. The only way to maintain a relationship and built better connection is through communication

Avoid reading your mind, and talk to your partner about any issue you are worried about. They should be willing to listen to you. Your thoughts may be wrong and you might have taken a wrong decision that will destroy your relationship. So avoid mind reading.

 Being Passive Aggressive. 

Having a passive-aggressive partner is a red flag. These are people that show toxic habits without communicating with their partners. They hoard aggressive emotions and can be physically abusive. Again, communication sort this issue. Instead of them talking out their upset, they prefer to react. This can destroy a relationship. No one would want to be in a physically abusive relationship. Would you?

3. Sense of Entitlement

Never have a sense of entitlement. It makes you look greedy. It is a sense of being owed when nothing significant has been done to warrant special treatment. Yes, there are exclusive periods but it should be on a low. Feeling you should have everything you need is selfishness and it brings about conflict in a relationship. Entitlement could lead to pressure. Pressure can lead to wrong decisions. To save your beautiful relationship avoid a sense of entitlement.

4. Making comparisons.

Many people make comparisons with their past. They compare their present partner with their past to prove a point a point. It is wrong. It makes your partner feel insufficient. You bruise their value and pride and this can draw them away from you. If your past relationship was better why didn't you stay there?  It leads to unhappiness, it dampens your vision and the beauty of your new life. People who compare their partners are only after what they want to receive from them. So talk a walk from those people or you stop the habit.

5. Lack of forgiveness.

Counting scores is a bad habit. One you should desist from, There is no perfect person so imperfections are welcome. Take a breath and correct your loved one. Don't bottle up imperfections to use against them in future. It doesn't speak well of you. You are also not perfect so why the fuss on forgiving your partner?  Avoid it.